Research case · Death & the departed
She was not really dead
England · before 1911
Shortly after his mother's death he repeatedly dreamed that she had come to life again. She had been buried, but it was somehow found out that she was not really dead… these doubts were finally swallowed up in a sense of wonder and joy because his mother was actually there, alive, in his dream.
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- Source
- The World of Dreams — Havelock Ellis, 1911. Ch. VIII, Observation I
- Rights
- Public domain (US)
- Record type
- Research case
- Place
- England · British
- Date
- before 1911
- Uncertainty
- Moderate — Reported by Ellis about an anonymised correspondent ("Mr. C.").
- Imagery
- Mother · Grave
- Feelings
- Grief · Joy · Wonder
How traditions have read this kind of dream
Psychological
Dreams of the dead returning are widely reported after bereavement. Ellis noted how such dreams often move, over years, from disbelief to quiet acceptance; many people describe them as comforting rather than frightening.
Ellis (1911), ch. VIII
Mythological
In Homer, dreams pass through gates of horn and ivory; across many cultures the dead were believed to visit the living in sleep, and dreams were a place where the two could meet.
Odyssey XIX
Chinese traditions
Chinese poets wrote dreams of the departed as acts of remembrance: Su Shi’s “Ten years, living and dead” and Du Fu’s “My old friend entered my dream” are read to this day as elegies.
Su Shi (1075); Du Fu (759)
These are cultural lenses, not a diagnosis.
Dreams that share its images
- I gave birth to a lion Athens, Greece · c. 495 BCE
- A masked man asked for his bone back Huangkeng, China · c. 795
- Hector’s ghost before my sight Troy (setting) · 19 BCE (poem)
- Easter morning, cattle on the graves Grasmere, England · c. 1819
- Riding with Achilles Vienna, Austria · c. 1900
- The skull that spoke in a dream On the road to Chu, China · c. 3rd century BCE