研究案例 · 死亡与逝者
即将被钉入棺木
英国 · 1911 年以前
I dreamed that I had died (though, somehow, I was not myself, but had become more or less identified with an ugly old woman)… Preparations for the funeral were meanwhile being made, and I was about to be nailed down in my coffin. At this point I became horribly aware that these proceedings would cause suffocation, and, with great effort, I succeeded in moving my arms and speaking incoherently.
我梦见自己死了(不过不知怎的,我又不是我自己,而是多少变成了一个丑陋的老妇人)……葬礼正在准备,我就要被钉进棺材。这时我惊恐地意识到这会让我窒息,于是用尽全力,终于动了动手臂,含糊地说出话来。
各传统如何看待这类梦
心理学
亲人离世后梦见逝者归来,是很常见的体验。霭理士 注意到,这类梦常在多年间从“不肯相信”逐渐变为平静接受;许多人说这些梦带来的是安慰而不是恐惧。
霭理士(1911)第八章
神话传统
荷马史诗中,梦从“角门”与“象牙门”出入;在许多文化里,人们相信逝者会在睡梦中探望生者,梦是两者相遇的地方。
《奥德赛》第十九卷
中国传统
中国诗人把梦见逝者写成追念:苏轼的“十年生死两茫茫”、杜甫的“故人入我梦”至今仍被当作悼亡与怀人之作诵读。
苏轼(1075);杜甫(759)
这些是文化视角,不是诊断。